We all have images of who we are. We have a concept of who we might be and what we could decide if we were at a given situation. We also are fast to address what we would do if we were another person who´s given a number of circumstances around her. And awesomely it looks like if we were that other individual we would certainly do things right! We have this self-distorted idea of ourselves being the wisest individual ever when it´s a matter of having just an opinion regarding a third party.
But our moment to show all these wonderful things we keep inside will have its turn at some point in our lives. And it will be then when that richness inside of us will have its chance to show who we really are. In that very moment it will not be ONLY ideas but we will be displaying what we actualy have inside our heads and hearts.
How often we know of somebody who says she will do this when the right circumstances arrive just to find later that she didn´t do even half when the opportunity showed its face? Why does this happen so frequently? Because talking is very, very easy but performing requires your heart and will in action both at the same time playing the symphony of your life.
In that very moment of adversity you have the unique and special elements needed to show yourself who really dwells inside you. It´s the chance for you to become who you are and show that you can. Make sure your dreams are truly cherished by yourself and your goals are absoultely clear since these two stars will be like compasses in the middle of the night of adversity.
In your attempt to achieve your dreams you will probably have to boldly face your family´s opinions and discouragements. You probably will have to deal with your mates´ frustrations and resentments. And most of all, it will almost be sure you will have to fight against your OWN scares and deepest fears. But then again- This is your chance to realize what you have in you!! The real opportunity for success lies within you, not in the circumstances or in the opinions of others about you. Don´t you EVER forget it!
In the morning your determination has to have the power of the sun, so that by night when you go to sleep you can feel the peace and fresh light of satisfaction of the clear moon. One is reflection of the other.
Now the question is- Have you been introduced to yourself?
Kisses and Blessings,
Jamie Velasco
The answer is yes! I was introduced to myself late last year and I love me now. I am following my dreams and overcoming my fears. I am not getting as much encouragement from my family, but my chosen family picks but the slack. I know my family will come around. My kids though….think I am the best…and that’s all the encouragement I need.
Love your post,
Blanca
My answer is also yes! But as i am finding, fighting fear takes a great toll, a hard battle..but the stars, i like looking at them and pray, be with me
Love your post, a heart pasted in front of my eyes..
apurva
I have discovered just be me…go for your dreams and never worry about what others things excellent blog thank you.
Jamie,
What a wonderful post. I discovered myself last year when going through a marital separation (we have since reconciled) but it was quite an exhilerating experience…to truly understand myself and live fully present for me.
Thanks for the post.
Darren Sproat
Good stuff.
Though we like/prefer to define our lives by the peaks–those times when everything comes together and we look like winners–it’s the valleys–the periods of adversity–that define WHO we are at the core.
This is probably because it’s only when we’re in the midst of adversity that we come face to face with our fears. Every one of us has fears, even those who seem most powerful. It’s easy to be fearless when all is going our way, but when we’re in the pit and the adversaries and troubles are real, we’re forced to dig down deep into ourselves to find a way to overcome.
What ever it is we think of ourselves is close to meaningless; it’s our actions–especially under adversity–that truly define and shape who we are.
What a wonderful post!
I believe the answer is to live as mindfully and authentically as possible. When we acknowledge our fears, face them and transcend them, we become truly free.
Warm wishes,
Mia Rose
I’ve been knowing myself for a very long time now. I’ve learned that materialism is bread of insecurity so I now lead the simplest life of anyone I know. I don’t even own a cell phone! I’ve learned that a man does not validate me..I DO..so I’ve been single and celibate for years by choice. Best decision I ever made too. I can finally focus on what I need to be doing instead of worrying about what HE’S doing. I’ve also learned what my stengths and weaknesses are and own them. I don’t think most women come into their own (if they EVER do) until their late 30′s to 40′s.
Bravo Jamie! Always very insightful!
You shine like the diamond that I see in you Jamie. Certainly the words come from coming through the fire and the intense pressure that makes each diamond. Well written dear friend.
Beautiful Jamie! If we fail at being true to ourselves, how can we be true to anyone else? It is so important to be proud of your actions, and stay true to who you are. Thank You once again, for being the beautiful being you are!
SMILES!
Judy Schneider
Yes – I was introduced to myself about three years ago and I re-introduce myself to myself EVERY day as a way of re-membering who I am! Great post!
Nice post – I’ve been introduced, courted, romanced, proposed to, married, separated, reunited with myself – you name it. We go everywhere together inside and out.
It is true that adversity may or may not bring out the best in us. It is a matter of choice and I think that choice begins way before the challenge arises. That choice is the daily time spent with one’s self and the compassionate investigation into our own heart, mind, spirit and body. Doing our deep soul work on a regular basis is like the daily hike that prepares us for the trek in Nepal or the journey down the Grand Canyon. Whom we are being at every moment informs whom it is that we are as we meet both our challenges and our joys.
That you used the metaphor “symphony” leads me to say this, practice practice practice. All musicians know this. It does not make perfect, it is a way of life.
blessings to you!
Wonderful post. There have been many times in my life when adversity has given me the opportunity to meet myself. I’ve learned that I’m stronger than I think I am. It’s so important to know ourselves so we can better navigate those trying moments and live out our dreams. Thanks for sharing your insights.
“… talking is very, very easy but performing requires your heart and will in action both at the same time playing the symphony of your life…”
BEAUTIFULLY stated & so true!
Yes. I was recently introduced to myself and I wish it had long before now. Like others I don’t have my family’s encouragement but I’m not lettin that stop me
Nice Post.. will carry this over to our website… http://www.aglakadam.com …
Really adversity is a great teacher ….
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Ajit Varwandkar
Twitter @varwandkar
Oh I do like this very much. Very inspiring. I love the line “make sure your dreams are truly cherished by yourself.” Only you must cherish them to give them real value. Follow your heart after that and make them happen.
Thank you for sharing.
-Jenna